ICPR Abstracts: Session 1
Session 1: Daytime Posters
Sexuality and Aids
1.1
The Sexual Behavior of College Students:
Personality and Situational Influences
David A. Sbarra
Cornell University
This study examined personality and situational influences
on the sexual behavior of college students. Results
replicate previous findings regarding the personality
characteristics of individuals most likely to engage in
high-risk sexual behavior. In addition, evidence was
found for a variety of situational influences, including
opportunities for social interaction with potential sexual
partners, alcohol consumption, and social group norms.
The findings suggest that the influence of personality
factors on sexual behavior is mediated by self-selection
into situations that facilitate or inhibit such activity.
Findings are discussed in terms of their theoretical as well
as policy implications.
1.2
"Hook Ups": Characteristics and Correlates of
Spontaneous and Anonymous Sexual Experiences
Among Youth
Elizabeth L. Paul
Trenton State College
This study identifies and explores a common contemporary
risky sexual behavior pattern among college students:
"hook ups". Hook ups are defined as a one-night sexual
encounter (sometimes including sexual intercourse)
between strangers or brief acquaintances. Preliminary
results from a study of 550 college students revealed a
high rate of hook ups (80%; 35% including sexual
intercourse). Students report a mix of positive (attractive,
self-confident) and negative (confused, hungover, used)
feelings following hook ups. Several significant correlates
of hook up experience were found (low self-esteem, high
harm- avoidance, high fear of intimacy, high alcohol use),
providing clues to possible motivating and/or resulting
factors. Future directions for research on this common
phenomenon will be offered.
1.3
Sexual Power Scripts: A Comparison Between
French-speaking Heterosexual and Homosexual Men
Joseph Lévy, Université du Québec à Montréal
Louis Robert-Frigault, Université de Montréal
Joanne Otis and André Dupras,
Université du Québec à Montréal
Michel Perreault and Louise Labonté ,
Université de Montréal
Michel Dorais, Université du Québec à Montréal
The characteristics of sexual power scripts, a group of 125
homosexuals, aged between 18 and 30 years and having a
college or university degree, have been compared to a
group of 197 heterosexual university students of the same
age. Among the nine items measuring the power scripts,
four differences were present: heterosexuals were more
equalitarian than homosexuals as to the choice of the place
where to have sexual relations. The latter were more
equalitarian for decisions concerning the way these
relations will be directed. They were also more likely to
report that they had sexual relations when they did not
want to, while heterosexuals were more frequently trying
to persuade their partner to have sexual relations.
1.4
Understanding the Complexity of the Sexual
Resistance Situation: Relational Intimacy, Relational
Commitment and Initiator Directness as Predictors of
Sexual Resistance Strategy Choice
Walid A. Afifi and Sandra Duemmler
University of Delaware
Several factors make attempts at resisting sexual activity a
relatively common occurrence in many romantic
relationships. This investigation contributes to knowledge
about sexual resistance strategies by (a) using Sternberg's
Triangular Theory of Love and research on facework to
argue that the resistor's sensitivity to relational and
personal consequences of their resistance choice is
dependent on the levels of relational commitment and
intimacy and (b) relying on data regarding reciprocity in
interactions to propose that the directness of the resistance
will be mediated by the initiator's directness. Data from
123 participants generally confirm the predictions and
reflect the complexity of the sexual resistance situation.
1.5
Associations of Intimacy With Relationship Partners'
Attempts to Influence Health Behaviors
Michael R. Dennis
Purdue University
The present study explores the association of relationship
intimacy between romantic partners with attempts to
influence different types of commonly recognized
"healthful" behaviors. Participants will complete the
PAIR emotional intimacy scale (Schaefer & Olson, 1981)
and the Miller Social Intimacy Scale (Miller & Lefcourt,
1982), as well as answer questionnaires that elicit
information about their use, preference and anticipated
effects of different interpersonal health behavior influence
strategies within romantic relationships. These will
concern four behavioral specifics (changes in diet,
cessation of smoking, adoption of/adherence to exercise
programs, and condom usage) that are correlated to serious
long-term illnesses (heart disease, cancers, HIV) which
plague the U.S. today. Analyses of the association
between relationship intimacy and types of interpersonal
appeals found effective are anticipated to define
compliance-gaining strategies that informed parties can
utilize to influence their partners.
1.6
Getting to Know Someone Who's HIV Positive:
Impact of Sexual Orientation and Responsibility for
the Infection
Susan P. Sherburne and Valerian J. Derlega
Old Dominion University
The present laboratory study examined how people react
to an HIV seropositive person as a function of the stimulus
person's alleged responsibility for the infection and sexual
orientation (gay or heterosexual). Overall, subjects
reported more negative affect and less trust for a gay
versus heterosexual HIV positive individual. Males also
reacted more negatively to gay versus heterosexual HIV-
positive individuals. The "responsibility" induction per se
had limited impact on subjects' reactions; however, males
responded more intimately (on a self-disclosure measure)
to an HIV-positive person who had been "responsible"
than "irresponsible" sexually at the time of contracting the
HIV infection. Implications of sexual orientation and
responsibility for acquiring the HIV-infection for the social
relationships of HIV-seropositive persons will be
considered.
1.7
HIV/AIDS and Close Relationships
Susan S. Hendrick, Brock Boekhout
and Clyde Hendrick, Texas Tech University
HIV/AIDS has often been viewed as an individual
concern, but it is also a relationship concern. Research
exploring sexuality generally as well as contraception
more specifically indicates that both intrapersonal and
interpersonal characteristics influence sexual attitudes and
behavior. The current study employed both quantitative
and qualitative data to clarify some of these characteristics
relevant to AIDS awareness. Some 166 participants (79
men, 87 women) completed a number of measures (e.g.,
AIDS attitudes, sexual self-esteem, sexual attitudes) and
also gave a written account of how AIDS had influenced
the sexual aspects of their romantic relationship. Findings
and their implications are discussed in detail.
1.8
Personal Accounts about Disclosing and Concealing of
HIV-Positive Test Results:
Weighing the Benefits and Risks
Valerian J. Derlega, Barbara A. Winstead,
and David Lovejoy
Old Dominion University
This poster focuses on the reasons why individuals do or
do not disclose information about being HIV seropositive
after they have learned about their diagnosis. We also
considered how type of target (e.g., lover/spouse,
parents/siblings, friends, and co- workers) affected the
reasons given for disclosure versus nondisclosure.
Results, based on a content analysis of interviews with 42
individuals with the HIV infection, were consistent with
the assumption that HIV seropositive individuals (akin to
anyone who wishes to maintain privacy) seek to control
who has access to the information about the diagnosis.
Hence, HIV seropositive individuals weighed carefully
their reasons for disclosing versus not disclosing about the
diagnosis which, in turn, influenced who they actually
told.
Betrayal, Infidelity and Jealousy
1.9
Factors Related to the Frequency and
Seriousness of Betrayal
Laurie L. Couch
University of Tennessee
Past research on betrayal has indicated that betrayal is a
common experience, but has not provided adequate
information regarding the factors related to a betrayal's
perceived seriousness or one's frequent experience with
betrayal. The present research found that one's tendency
to betray others was related to non-romantic relational
dissatisfaction and gender, whereas the corresponding
perception of being betrayed often was related to romantic
satisfaction and experience with several painful romantic
breakups. In addition, ratings of participants' betrayal
stories revealed that gender, the type of betrayal, and
change in the relationship due to the betrayal were all
related to the perceived seriousness of the incident.
1.10
Accounting for Infidelity in Heterosexual Relationships
Angie Burns and Dorothy Miell, The Open University
Chris Griffin, University of Birmingham
This study investigates the construction of stories and
accounts of infidelity in heterosexual relationships. In
semi-structured interviews, eleven women talked at length
about their relationships and love. Using discourse
analytic techniques, qualitatively different accounts were
identified for their own infidelities and those of their
partners. This suggests they are drawing on a gendered
discourse of infidelity, within which women position
themselves as faithful, even when they are not, and
position men as faithless even when they are faithful. We
consider how women discursively construct a complex
interweaving of power, love, insecurity and infidelity
within heterosexual relationships. Subsequent interviews
with men allowed an exploration of whether they drew on
a similar discourse.
1.11
A Confirmatory Investigation of the
Transactional Model of Jealousy
William D. Marelich, The Claremont Graduate School
Stanley O. Gaines, Jr., Pomona College
A study was undertaken to test the transactional model of
jealousy (Bringle, 1991), which suggests jealousy is a
dispositional characteristic in a transactional framework.
Three latent components of the transactional model were
evaluated: commitment, insecurity, and arousability.
Dating couples completed measures of jealousy, self-
esteem, internal control, and relationship satisfaction.
Linear structural equation modeling was used to measure
the causal effects of these variables on jealousy by gender.
Support for the transactional model was confirmed for
females, but not for males, indicating that jealousy may be
a different process for men and women. Findings suggest
further that jealousy experienced by one person in the
dyad has an indirect (as opposed to direct) effect on
jealousy experienced by their partner.
Love and Attraction
1.12
"What's Love Got to Do with It," Verse Two:
Associations between Love Styles
and Communication Values
Adrianne W. Kunkel, Brant R. Burleson,
and Carol L. Bishop, Purdue University
To understand how love styles might be expressed
communicatively, the present paper explores the
relationships among individuals' communication values
and the six major love styles identified by Lee (1973).
Two different studies are reported in the current paper. In
Study 1, participants completed a brief version of
Hendrick and Hendrick's (1986) Love Attitudes Scale,
which provides assessments of six love styles, and
Burleson and Samter's (1990) Communication Functions
Questionnaire, which generates judgments about the
importance of several affectively and instrumentally
oriented communication skills. Correlational and
hierarchical regression analyses indicated that there were
complex, but readily interpretable, patterns of association
between love styles and communication skill evaluations.
The second study sought to improve the instrumentation
used and replicate the results of the first study. In both
studies, some associations between skill evaluations and
love styles were moderated by gender.
1.13
Falling in Love: An Exploratory Investigation
M. A. L. van Tilburg, A. J. J. M. Vingerhoets,
and R. Grim, Tilburg University
Five-hundred-and-eighty-eight Dutch females completed a
questionnaire on the context, antecedents of, and reactions
to falling in love. The questionnaire was based upon the
work of Scherer and his co-workers on emotional
experiences in everyday life. It is concluded that falling in
love is a unexpected but predominantly positively
perceived feeling. Already being in a relationship does not
necessarily inhibit these feelings. Neither is it important
how long one knows the person. In contrast, age seems to
have an important influence on the appraisal of falling in
love.
1.14
Love Styles, Sex Role Self Schema, Equity, and
Relationship Satisfaction for Cohabiting Gay, Lesbian,
and Heterosexual Couples
Barry J. Fallon
University Of Melbourne
Relationship dimensions within 28 heterosexual , 22 gay
male, and 35 lesbian couples were examined. Love style
differences for males and females were not the same as
those for heterosexuals and homosexuals. Different
combinations of love styles were significant predictors of
relationship satisfaction than were predictors of group
membership. Social exchange was important for the gays
and lesbians while referential equity was important for the
heterosexuals and the lesbians. Age and length of
relationship were typically not significant, nor, except for
masculinity/femininity, were sex role self schema. There
are clear differences in the manner in which the variables
are related to each other within each of the groups.
1.15
Measuring Love Attitudes: A Dutch Experience
M. A. L. van Tilburg and A. J. J. M. Vingerhoets
Tilburg University
Two-hundred-and-six Dutch adults completed the relation
specific version of the Love Attitude Scale (LAS; Hendrick
& Hendrick, 1990), measuring six love styles: Eros
(romantic, passionate love), Ludus (game-playing love),
Storge (friendship love), Pragma (logical, shopping-list
love), Mania (possessive, dependent love), and Agape
(selfless love).
The results of the present study challenge the existence of
six relatively independent love attitudes. It rather seems
that the LAS measures one general instead of six specific
attitudes. However, it is not clear what meaning to
attribute to this general attitude. Furthermore, it can be
concluded that love attitudes differ across age but not
between gender. Pragma is the only scale which is not
related to age but increases with increasing mean numbers
of love experiences. It is tempting to speculate that one
might become more pragmatic and logical in love when
having had several disappointments in love.
1.16
Man's Best Friend? Empirical Evidence for Canine
Assistance in Attracting Females
Shelley Dean Kilpatrick, Craig A. Foster,
and James Gross
University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill
The hypothesis that females are attracted to males who
exhibit greater social-emotional qualities was tested.
Observers rated females nonverbal behavior under each of
three nurturance conditions (a) male playing with dog, (b)
male walking with dog, and (c) male alone. Mean
attraction levels were lowest in the no dog condition,
intermediate in the with dog condition, and highest in the
playing with dog condition. Females displayed more eye
contact, smiled more, and displayed higher total attraction
toward both the male with dog than the male alone.
Therefore, socio- emotional qualities are important in the
attraction of females to males.
1.17
Male Perceptions of Specific Courtship Tactics
for Quality and Quantity Relationships
Linda R. Hirsch
Temple University
Human males may adopt one of two mating strategies: 1)
the "Quality", a long-term, committed relationship or, 2)
the "Quantity" strategy, a short-term, primarily sexual
relationship. The two strategies should use different
courtship tactics. In a series of four studies, a set of 38
courtship behaviors were rated by male subjects. The
ratings indicated that (1) tactics of Quality courtship
involve mutual assessment, the development of emotional
closeness, and a delay in sexual relations, (2) tactics of
Quantity courtship involve sexual innuendos and an
avoidance of emotional closeness, and (3) no Quality
tactics are useful to the Quantity strategist and few
Quantity tactics are useful to the Quality strategist.
1.18
Gender Differences in Standards for
Romantic Relationships
Anita L. Vangelisti and John A. Daly
University of Texas
Why is it that women often report more problems in their
romantic relationships than do men? One explanation
apparent in the literature is that women have stronger
standards for relationships than do their male counterparts
and, as a consequence, are less likely to have their
standards met. A second is that while women and men
may not differ in terms of the strength of their standards,
the experiences they have in their romantic relationships
lead women to feel their standards are not as often
fulfilled. The current study tested these two notions and
found greater support for the latter. The strength of
standards held by women and men involved in
heterosexual romantic relationships was similar. Women,
however, noted that their standards were met less often
than did men. The ability of two different theoretical
models to predict and explain these findings is discussed.
1.19
Empathy as Including Other in the Self
Barbara Fraley and Art Aron
State University of New York at Stony Brook
According to the self-expansion model, altruism arises
because the helped other is part of the self (so that helping
other is helping self). Since empathy is a key mediator of
helping behavior, we began exploring these issues by
focusing on empathy. In this experiment we manipulated
empathy toward a target person, then administered four
inclusion-of-other-in-the-self measures relating to self and
target person. We ran subjects individually, telling each
that he or she was part of a two-person team. Subjects
were led to believe they were watching their partner over
closed-circuit TV as the partner was being subjected to a
series of loud blackboard scratches supposedly part of a
learning task. We manipulated empathy by instructing
subjects to form an emotional impression of their partner
or to focus on the technical aspects of the task. As
predicted, there were significant differences in the
expected direction (indicating greater inclusion of other in
the self for the empathy condition) on Aron et al.'s (1992)
Inclusion of Other in the Self Scale (1992) and on two
cognitive tasks (Aron et al., 1991): an imaging task
showing a self-reference effect for partner and a reaction-
time task showing self-other confusions with partner.
(The experiment also involved an additional manipulation,
focusing on "magical contamination," in which the subject
did or did not wear a lab coat supposedly belonging to the
other person. This effect interacted in inconsistent ways
with the one we are examining in this paper. Thus, the
above results are simple effects analyses for those not
wearing the partner's lab coat.)
1.20
Shared Expansion Experiences
and Relationship Satisfaction
Christina Norman and Art Aron
State University of New York at Stony Brook
The self-expansion model of motivation holds that
individuals enter relationships to expand the self. When a
couple has been together for a few years, the original
opportunities for expansion when forming a relationship
(self-disclosure and risk taking) diminish and habituation
may set in. However, if a couple can engage together in
expanding activities, these experiences of self- expansion
may be partially attributed to the partner and the
relationship, thereby enhancing relationship satisfaction.
A previous field experiment (Reissman, Aron & Bergen,
1993) found that couples randomly assigned to engage in
shared expanding activities 1-1/2 hr/wk over a 10-wk
period showed significantly greater gains in marital
satisfaction than did a control group who engaged in
merely pleasant activities over this period. The present
study was designed to replicate the effect under more
tightly controlled conditions and to develop a laboratory
paradigm to permit a more careful analysis of the
mechanisms involved. Subjects (28 couples) believed they
were taking part in an evaluation session in which they
completed questionnaires and were observed in an
interaction task. In fact, the first questionnaire, completed
before the activity, was a pretest; the activity itself was
systematically manipulated to be either expanding or
boring; and the second questionnaire, completed after the
activity, was a posttest. Consistent with the hypothesis,
after controlling for pretest relationship satisfaction, the
exciting activity group was significantly higher in posttest
measures of relationship satisfaction. In addition, there
was a significant interaction between condition and length
of relationship. The pattern was consistent with the
model: Couples who had been together a short time
showed little difference between conditions on
satisfaction, while those together a long time showed a
significant difference in the expected direction.
Roles in Marriage and the Family
1.21
His and Her Marriages:
Sex Role Ideals, Skills, and Behaviors
Susan Gano-Phillips
University of Michigan-Flint
This study investigates the processes by which sex role
ideals and skills are related to sex role behavior and
marital satisfaction in a sample of 81 married couples.
Simultaneous path analyses were used to examine the
relationships between perceived ideal sex roles, perceived
skills at sex typed tasks, marital behavior, and marital
satisfaction. Data were consistent with some aspects of
the proposed theoretical model for both Husbands and
Wives. For husbands, both perceptions of ideal sex roles
and perceptions of skills were predictive of behavior. For
wives, perceptions of skills predicted behavior but
perceptions of ideal sex roles were unrelated to behavior.
1.22
Correlates of Family Social Roles
J. L. Fischer, J. Munsch, and B. W. Pidcock
Texas Tech University
Family social roles (hero, mascot, lostchild, and
scapegoat) as reported by 108 high school students were
related to family dysfunction, to satisfaction with family
members, and to sources of self-concept support. There
was preliminary support for the hypothesis that more
functional families are (a) more alike in family
constellations of roles, (b) less negative in overall family
roles, and (c) more positive in respondent's self-reported
role. Both hero and lostchildren roles were related to lack
of satisfaction with mother. However, the hero role was
positively related to school achievement whereas the
lostchild role was negatively related to popularity.
Mascots were popular and scapegoats were from
dysfunctional families.
1.23
Male Gender Role Change: The Effects on
Marital Relationships and Household Chores
Mary J. Pickard
Fort Hays State University
A majority of American males and females expect that
husbands will help with household chores when a wife is
employed full time. yet data from a geographically
representative national sample of 2033 Americans
indicates that only when female income is similar to male
income is there an equitable division of household labor.
When females supplies 10-20% or 81-100% of the
household income, the male's gender role ideology is more
traditional. Three waves of data collected between 1980
and 1988 were used to establish baseline data on change
in male gender role and how willingness to perform
household labor affected marital happiness and marital
instability.
1.24
Identity and Close Relationship Influences on Young
Adults' Expectations for Future Career,
Marital, and Parental Roles
Jennifer L. Kerpelman,
University of North Carolina at Greensboro
Joe F. Pittman, Auburn University
This study examined identity and relationship factors
hypothesized to influence young adults' expectations for
future career, marital, and parental roles. Seventy-seven
undergraduates and their partners participated in a lab
procedure. The purpose of this procedure was to examine
identity shaping processes that occur within relationship
contexts. Analyses currently underway will determine the
degree to which target individuals maintained or changed
identity expectations when they received information
(while in the presence of their partners) that contradicted
their self- views. Congruence between the targets' and
partners' views of the targets' identities are expected to
facilitate maintenance of identity beliefs in the face of
conflicting information.
Quality of Familial Relationships
1.25
The Impact of Perceived Quality of Familial
Relationships on Female Faculty's
Subjective Career Success
Brenda L. Bass and Mari S. Wilhelm
University of Arizona
Emotional support from close relationships has been found
to benefit women in their occupations. This study
investigated whether female university faculty with high
quality of parental, marital, and overall family
relationships have higher levels of subjective occupational
success. These women completed measures of subjective
career success, perceived work competence, parental role
quality, marital role quality, and family life quality.
Analyses will include regressing subjective career success
on parental role quality, marital role quality, and family
life quality while controlling for self-reported work
competence. A significant result would indicate a positive
spillover from family to work for women which should be
fostered.
1.26
Her Marriage, His Marriage and
Their Children's Adjustment
Susan M. McHale and Mary C. Maguire
Pennsylvania State University
We studied differences in children's adjustment and family
relationships as a function of different patterns of wives'
and husbands' marital love in 100 predominantly white,
working- middle class, two-parent families with at least
two school-age children. Mothers, fathers, and both
children were interviewed separately about their well-
being and family relationships in home interviews; in a
series of 7 nightly phone interviews family members also
reported on their daily activities. Analyses revealed more
child adjustment problems and parent-child conflict when
wives but not husbands reported low levels of marital
love; in these families wives were more dissatisfied with
the division of child care and marital decision-making.
Gender roles in marriage and their implications for
children will be discussed.
1.27
Links Between Relationships: The Connections
Between Parents' Marriages and
Adolescents' Peer Relations
Kimberly A. Updegraff
Pennsylvania State University
This study examined the connections between multiple
dimensions of parents' marriages and adolescents'
relationships with peers. Data were collected from
mothers, fathers, and firstborn boys and girls in 141
predominantly middle and working class families.
Findings showed that parents' division of labor and reports
of marital conflict were connected to adolescents' temporal
involvement with friends. In contrast, mothers' and
fathers' satisfaction in their marriage was linked to
adolescents' dating behavior. Findings are discussed in
terms of the importance of considering multiple
relationship dimensions and the collective marital
experiences of both parents in understanding girls' and
boys' relationships with peers.
1.28
'Sister Best Friends': Stories of Relationship
Melanie Mauthner
London University
This paper considers relationships between biological
sisters. It presents data from a small qualitative UK study,
in particular the stories sisters tell as 'sister best friends'.
The method of analysis and some methodological issues
are outlined. The research design, data collection and data
analysis are embedded in three theoretical approaches to
qualitative research - feminism, feminist postmodernism
and poststructuralism, and sociological work in
auto/biography. Drawing on interviews with sisters across
four decades, the typology of 'sister best friends' is
examined in terms of the pleasures and tensions around
female friends, boyfriends, the body and emotions,
difference and power relations.
Predictors of Continuation and Commitment
in Romantic Relationships
1.29
Relational Quality in Romantic Relationships:
A Test of the Investment Model
Jacki Fitzpatrick, Texas Tech University
Donna L. Sollie, Auburn University
Guided by the investment model, the present study
examined the influence of dimensions of interdependence
(e.g., comparison level, alternatives, investments) and
daily interactional events (e.g., self-disclosure, conflict,
maintenance behaviors) on commitment in romantic
relationships. The interdependence factors and relational
quality factors were assessed via a questionnaire packet;
the interpersonal variables were measured by a daily log of
relational interactions for a two-week period. The results
of this study indicated that both types of factors contribute
to commitment with relationship partners. This study
highlights the importance of studying both
interdependence and interactional factors in relationships
and provides additional support for the utility of the
investment model in studying romantic relationships.
1.30
Love and Commitment in Close Relationships
Duane W. Crawford and Judith L. Fischer,
Texas Tech University
Lisa Diana, Southwest Education Center
Following the lead of Johnson (1981; 1991) and Kelley
(1983), this study investigated the relative importance of
endogenous and exogenous influences upon relationship
commitment. Love (care, need, and trust), commitment,
equity, and relationship alternatives were measured using
a sample of 230 college students. Results indicated that
care, need, and trust were all moderately correlated with
relationship commitment, and that alternatives explained
more variance in commitment than the love subscales or
equity. The latter result is consistent with Sprecher's
(1988) conclusion that one of the most important
predictors of commitment is the level of available
alternatives.
1.31
Predicting Commitment and Relationship Persistence:
The Role of Fluctuations in Satisfaction Level
Ximena B. Arriaga
University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill
This research tests whether fluctuations in couple
members' satisfaction level undermine the development of
commitment and increase the odds of breakup in the early
stages of relationships. Consistent with hypotheses, results
revealed that (1) after taking into account the overall trend
in relationship qualities and the largest decline in
satisfaction, each obtained over ten weekly sessions,
fluctuations in satisfaction ratings significantly predicted
Time 10 commitment and breakup status (measured four
months later); and (2) Time 10 commitment mediated the
impact of fluctuations in satisfaction level on later breakup
status. Additional measures suggested that such
fluctuations reflect ambivalence and doubts about the
relationship.
1.32
Attachment Style, Relationship Orientation,
and Relationship Outcomes: A Longitudinal
Investigation of Long-distance Romantic Involvements
Gregory D. Morrow and Kimberly A. Lata
Edinboro University of Pennsylvania
A longitudinal study was designed to determine whether
or not individual differences in attachment style (secure,
avoidant, anxious/ambivalent) and relationship orientation
(exchange versus communal) were associated with
changes in the quality of respondents' long-distance
relationships. Correlational analyses indicated that both
avoidant and anxious/ambivalent attachment styles and an
exchange orientation were negatively related to
satisfaction and commitment and positively correlated
with loneliness and depression while secure attachment
and a communal orientation were positively associated
with these variables. Changes, over time, in relationship
quality were also examined.
1.33
Perspective Taking, Communication and Emotional
Maturity in Dating Relationships
Mark Odell
Bowling Green State University
Dating relationships remain highly significant in the
process of mate selection. Murstein's (1976) Stimulus-
Value-Role theory holds that partners progress toward a
decision to marry through increasingly intimate stages, so
long as perceived rewards outweigh costs. Making
ongoing judgments about rewards requires that both
partners be able to perspective-take (i.e., take the point of
view of another), to be emotionally mature, and be
effective communicators . In this study, the relations
between communication efficacy, perspective taking, and
emotional maturity are examined, and their effect on the
perception that a given dating relationship will end in
marriage is investigated.
1.34
Intimate Relationships Among Youth of Different
Races in Malaysia: A Preliminary Study
Abdul Azizal Abdul Aziz
Universiti Pertanian Malaysia
This paper discusses several interesting findings from a
survey conducted among students in a university campus
in Malaysia. A total of 85 interracial and interreligious
intimate couples were interviewed individually using a
self-report questionnaire. About 91 percent of the
respondents are aware that their relationships will not be
easily accepted by the society at large. Almost 65 percent
realize that their relationships are volatile since they have
not obtained their parents' blessings. They are also aware
of their cultural and religious differences and the need to
find a common ground. Even with all these challenges
that they are aware of almost all respondents state they
will continue their relationships after graduation; only 1.2
percent state they will end their relationships. In fact,
33.5 percent plan to get married. Most respondents
believe that interracial and interreligious marriage can
help promote unity and oneness in a melting pot like
Malaysia. Such relationships take time to bloom. A total
of 53.5 percent of the students said that their relationships
took more than a year to get serious. Most relationships
began with school work (30.6 percent), i.e., courses,
assignments, projects, study tours, etc. Their
communication topics usually center around school
activities and gradually move to current issues, hobbies,
and more serious and intimate items. Some 52 percent of
these relationships are based on shared interest and
mutual respect. Their communication patterns show that
52.4 percent keep in touch daily while another 20.7
percent see each other more than four days a week. 61.2
percent use up between one to two hours for each meeting.
Other than face-to-face interaction, 78.8 percent utilize the
telephone frequently.
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Commitment and Post-Divorce Relationships
Between Ex-spouses
Carol Masheter
University of Utah
This paper extends existing concepts on commitment
(Fehr, 1988; Johnson, 1991; Rusbult et al., 1994) in terms
of five scenarios for former spouses based on interview
data: (1) no commitment, (2) negative commitment, (3)
coparental commitment, (4) commitment to each other,
and (5) discrepant commitment. The first two scenarios
are consistent with earlier divorce research and public
stereotypes of divorced couples as completely disengaged
or as engaged in ongoing conflict. The second two
scenarios suggest new possibilities for potentially
beneficial commitment between former spouses. The fifth
scenario acknowledges that for some divorced couples the
former spouses do not have the same commitment
scenario. Implications for theory and future research are
discussed.
Mark Baldwin - <baldwin@uwinnipeg.ca>,
Alison Wiigs - <wiigs@ucalgary.ca>